Westrnmom, I obsessed about foam vs eggcrate for the bed. Then it was lock for laptop. In the end, it really doesn't matter because things work out. Son does have a way of helping me discover new things to worry about each year.
Lynda, I don't worry about things like type of mattress cover. I'm going to let S make those important decisions. All I have to do is pay for it. Things always do work out, and then we have new things to obsess over.